(July 21, 2015 at 10:05 pm)vorlon13 Wrote: Hell if I know why, but you all know me here as a sometimes promiscuous gay male, but I find the whole Ashley Madison crap odious in the extreme.
Don't know why it rubs me the wrong way, I'd never use it, and can't imagine a single gay male I know that ever would either. (and not that we are 'conventional' moral paragons or anything like that) but it just seems really scuzzy.
Hell if I know why it irks, it just does.
It is because it is dishonest, and, at least here, you are not dishonest. If you fuck around, but never pretended that you were doing something else, that is totally different from fucking around when you promised someone you would not fuck around. The one is honest, the other is being a lying asshole (and I mean that in a bad way, not how you naturally take the word "asshole").
You may recall me previously posting about liking you in a certain way, and you are not disappointing me now. Frankly, you seem like a pretty good guy, and if you drank and were local, I would be happy to buy you a beer or two at a local pub.
"A wise man ... proportions his belief to the evidence."
— David Hume, An Enquiry Concerning Human Understanding, Section X, Part I.