RE: Ask a Catholic
August 30, 2015 at 12:59 pm
(This post was last modified: August 30, 2015 at 1:00 pm by Randy Carson.)
(August 30, 2015 at 12:41 pm)I_am_not_mafia Wrote: OK back to the Original Post about asking a Catholic.
I'm a 40 year old woman approaching 41. I'm happily married but unable to have an orgasm. Not that I have ever had one and I suspect that I am asexual. But I've normally relied on being kinky to experience any form of meagre sexual thrill. Unfortunately I've kind of ran out of kinks to exploit because when you explore them they lose their novelty and get boring. Some of the kinkiest people I have ever met have been Catholic. Like one girl I spoke to had a fetish for being crucified because of her convent school upbringing.
I realise that I'm getting rather old to be conditioned with new kinks but I reckon if anyone can do it then it's the Catholic church. Do you think they're up to the task?
Do I think that Catholics are up to the task of helping you to reach your "goal"? Since you are married, this question is meaningless. Other Catholics cannot be involved in your sex life.
However, I'll propose a solution beginning with an analogy: just as a great chef might take great pleasure in preparing food for guests in his restaurant which he himself will never actually eat, so you might take personal satisfaction from the pleasure that you give to him. If he finds your body appealing, then learn to work it, girlfriend!
At the same time, he should be respectful of your situation, and make an effort to join you in those non-sexual activities which you find interesting whether they be gardening, hiking, or whatever. IOW, share your non-physical passions with him so that he may share them with you.
Who knows? That might even make your bedroom more interesting.