(November 28, 2015 at 1:17 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote: I see selective outrage in this thread
I think it's funny how people react differently to men and women cheating. If this was a woman filming her cheating boyfriend, nobody would be coming to his defense. People would be (quite justifiably in my opinion) dragging him up and down and calling him a cheating asshole. But then when it's a woman people want to make excuses for her and talk about "it depends, you don't know their circumstances".
I think there are some genuine cases of cheating where the cheater was driven to it, but that transgresses gender. Still most women who cheat had no good reason, and it still stands that most men who cheat have no good reason to either. "Well fuck her better" isn't the whole story, having better sex and a better relationship takes two to work. The bored partner considering cheating has to put some effort into it too. And if all else fails I completely agree with what Nap said, you end the relationship before you explore with other partners.
If the gender roles were switched, I would feel the exact same way. By the way, I am not defending her whatsoever. She's a cheating asshole.
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