Women's clothes?

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Ok thats fine by me. I dont care how someone dresses until they hypocritically claim victim when someone points out the obvious. 

Honestly, dress however you like, as long as you let others think whatever they want. It's when people start getting those two confused, and thinking they can both dress however they want IE: something drawing attention,  and then expect and rage over the fact it ends up drawing attention, that it becomes a problem.

I don't care what most people think about how I dress. I care what certain people think and I will occasionally dress a specific way for a specific person. If, however, someone were to walk up to me and tell me what they think of how I dress even though I haven't asked them, I might tell them to fuck off. That being said, no one has ever commented to me their opinion of my style choices irl in an offensive manner. The only time someone made me really uncomfortable I was wearing sweatpants and a tshirt. Creepy guys will be creepy regardless of how women dress.

I agree with you. 

My main disagreement is with MTL and C/L who think that even when a woman is dressing in almost no clothes, anyone they deem 'staring too long' from their own imaginated reality in which they suddenly know that persons exact thoughts,  is harrassing them by doing so. This can be seen with teenage girls as well, the idea that they can wear whatever the sam hell they want and be exempt from people they didnt initially desire to view them differently,  viewing them differently.

If someone initiates scolding someone for wearing a specific article of clothing screw them, but if the woman initiates asking why someone is silently giving extra attention to their clothing, the man is not to blame for questioning the motives of wearing it if not wanting attention.

And this doesnt apply to all cases but its certainly silly to think a woman wearing purposely skimpy outfits is not doing so for attention, however am i going to actively go question if thats the case?  No. 

I have a lot of opinions in the minority. Mainly im simply against the hypocrisy and expectations most of societies women have that no matter what they do they deserve to be respected equally. Treatment is different from respect. All women should be treated equally, just like all people in general.  However,  respect? Sorry if you deem it disrespectful, but if you wear attention seeking clothes you do not deserve the respect of making people feel guilty for looking at you.