(January 17, 2016 at 3:37 am)Heat Wrote:(January 17, 2016 at 2:11 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: When I was still single I used to wear really sexy, expensive underwear from Victoria's Secret. Only in my favorite colors - black, red, and hot pink. And yet... I was celibate and didn't strip down to my underwear in front of anyone. So, why did I wear them? Obviously no one was going to see them, and I knew that. I wore them because it made me feel sexy, for myself.Why the fuck would that make you feel sexy? What is deemed "sexy" if not by standards of your sexual preferential gender?
Again, believe it or not, the existence of women doesn't revolve around men all the time. And neither should it.
I'm gonna wear a bracelet I really like. AWW YEAH DUDE I'M SO FUCKING SEXY FUCK YEAH DUDE THIS IS THE SEXIEST THING I'VE EVER WORN, SCREW OTHER PEOPLE THIS IS GIVING ME CONFIDENCE BECAUSE I THINK IT'S THE FUCKING SEXIEST THING IN THE WORLD, NOTHING TO DO WITH OTHER PEOPLE FINDING IT ATTRACTIVE AWWWWWWWWWWWWWYEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH.
It just did. You don't have to understand. If you wish to continue to assume I'm lying and then treat me and talk to me as though I am, based on that assumption, then that is your choice and there's not much else I care to do.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh