For girls, a friend of mine suggested the judge test. If you can say Judge _____ or Dr. ____, without giggling or rolling your eyes, it's a good name for a woman who wants to be respected in the world. Judge Kitty, Missy, Dolly, Georgiana, or Francesca, don't cut it. My husband added that it shouldn't sound like she waits tables at a truck stop or stars in blue movies either.
If there is a god, I want to believe that there is a god. If there is not a god, I want to believe that there is no god.