(April 11, 2016 at 5:44 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: As for lockerrooms, I'm sorry but I would not feel comfortable with a man going in there while I'm in there changing/showering/etc... even if he did say he identified as female. I have no problem with a 3rd option of "gender neutral" bathroom/lockerrooms though.
The thing is, you're thinking of someone who lives full time as a man going into a woman's locker room or toilets / bathroom and it being obvious. Whereas the reality of the situation is that there is someone there who looks like another woman and who other people do not suspect as being transsexual. Or maybe they do but then they could just as easily be a cis gendered woman who looks rather masculine.
Whereas what the NC law for example requires is that trans-men, that is female to male transsexuals, now have to use the same facilities as you. So in reality, what you are suggesting is more likely to happen because of these laws. For example:
http://crossdreamers.tumblr.com/post/113...n-to-fight