(May 8, 2016 at 12:05 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote:(May 8, 2016 at 11:29 am)Excited Penguin Wrote: When it comes to being who you are, you're neither willing or unwilling, you just are. Your first two sentences I couldn't make any sense of, so please elaborate.
It does sound to me like you don't really care about the truth in this case, just about your preconceived notions and preferences. So, yeah, you're welcome.
You didn't control what made you want to withhold peeing.
Why not? I'm not being asshole, I just really don't get it. How am I not fully in control of making that decision?
I never thought you were being an asshole.
Why did you want to withhold your pee? There was a reason, right? That reason is what takes it out of your control.
