(September 18, 2016 at 12:02 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote:(September 18, 2016 at 11:58 am)RobertE Wrote: In fact, there is a great deal of difference in asking for a glass of water:
If he had asked:
"Would you kindly get me a glass of water please." He might of got one.
However, something suggests to me that he asked something like this:
"Yo, get me a glass of water now!!!" In that case, she was right not to get one.
Just goes to show that manners don't cost anything, your "please", "thank you", etc. Obviously he came from a family that don't have manners. I've seen it for myself in Paris, where I would ask nicely for a coffee in the morning and end with please. Others just go "coffee." It doesn't cost fuck all to say please.
Lol, what does that have to do with the fact that he tried to murder her? It doesn't matter how he asked for the glass of water, it matters what he did when he didn't get it.
Talk to people however you want as long as you're not forcing them to stay with you, listen to you, or do anything else to them against their explicit will. Or killing them over a glass of water, obviously.
I was just saying that is all. Nothing more or nothing less. As for the "talk to people however you want", is just bollocks. I don't really care for forums since I don't meet people. However, I work with a large number of different people and I treat them all equally, even if I don't like them. It is just the way I was brought up, please, thankyou and have a nice day etc. However, as far as I'm concerned, he overstepped the mark because it is clear that his upbringing was non-existant. He was lazy, he didn't want to work so, just claiming benefits and she wanted him out.