I don't think it's wrong. If someone isn't in a financial or emotional position to deal with a healthy child, we don't have a problem with giving them up for adoption. Why should we have a problem if the child is special needs? Some people aren't in a position to be able to handle it for a variety of reasons. I believe I read a study that said people with Down Syndrome babies are more likely to report being happy as a parent then people with normal children.
I couldn't find that study but did find this:
I couldn't find that study but did find this:
Quote: This study asks parents who have children with Down syndrome (DS) how they feel about their lives so that such information could be shared with expectant couples during prenatal counseling sessions. A valid and reliable survey instrument was mailed to 4,924 households on the mailing lists of six non-profit DS organizations. Of the 2,044 respondents, 99% reported that they love their son or daughter; 97% were proud of them; 79% felt their outlook on life was more positive because of them; 5% felt embarrassed by them; and 4% regretted having them. The parents report that 95% of their sons or daughters without DS have good relationships with their siblings with DS. The overwhelming majority of parents surveyed report that they are happy with their decision to have their child with DS and indicate that their sons and daughters are great sources of love and pride.https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21915989