(March 9, 2017 at 7:25 pm)Brian37 Wrote: Went to the funeral home today. Mom had paid for a plain black metal box for an urn. Didn't make sense to me considering she wanted her ashes spread, but who knows, she paid for it way back in 05. I ended up buying what is called spread box, since Bea and Nancy and John are going to spread her ashes with me in late May or June. Which although cardboard had a very pretty beach theme picture on it. Actually cost more than the metal box? But also got a 4 oz urn anyway because I am keeping that one in felt bag to hang in my van so she can go anywhere with me. Bought some platters from a local deli for the memorial and some flowers too. I do feel more calm about all this knowing I finally did something for her.
Remembering her when she was happy and vibrant is going to be a key thing to remember. Don't feel like you finally did something good for her, I'm sure you did a lot for her while she was alive. You stayed out of prison right? If yes then you did a lot for her. While your driving along the highways and streets, you have her memory following along side you. if you ever need to talk, we will be here for you. Your more then welcome to PM me if you want to chat. If you want a more direct line of chat, I know a site that does not require any software downloads and the chat is by invite only. Just keep that as an option, if you ever need to talk. I'm trying to avoid the old typical greeting card cleshay, I hate when people use it in place of coming up with anything original of their own.
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