(March 23, 2018 at 10:11 am)CapnAwesome Wrote:(March 23, 2018 at 10:07 am)Hammy Wrote: Nope. Once again my argument is misunderstood.
No umbrella widening required. Why do you think I made analogies with racism?
Then don't think about dicks... especially when the person doesn't have a dick.
Its the whole "don't think about pink elephants" thing. You can't just tell someone to not think about something. I mean, duh. It's in the brain or it's not. I don't have any control over that baseline of bubbling constant thoughts, and neither does anyone else.
Exactly this.
Hammy, I'm surprised, especially considering that you've diagnosed yourself with OCD, that you would suggest "just not thinking about something." Why would it work for sexual relationships if it doesn't work for anything else?