RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF
March 25, 2018 at 6:37 pm
(This post was last modified: March 25, 2018 at 7:16 pm by Lok1.)
(March 21, 2018 at 9:36 pm)Hammy Wrote: It would not be a deal breaker for me in the slightest. I wouldn't even blink. Perhaps I'd worry how some family or friends would judge me but then I'd think "fuck them they're bigoted idiots if they judge me."
If I'm attracted to someone's mind and body, then I'm attracted to their mind and body. Discovering after the fact that their chromosomes are different to I initially thought is about as relevant as discovering that the Slovak word for "apple" is "jablko".
I don't even think a trans person should have to tell the other person that they're trans. Why would it or should it matter?
Now I would certainly be against anyone to lie about it and say they're not trans if they are... but that's just because I'm against lying in general. I am not against irrelevant secrets that are nobody else's business.
If I were trans myself and I didn't want to tell anybody... I wouldn't.
LOL Do you even read what you type before you hit Post, or are contradictions simply beyond your ability to understand?
A deception of that magnitude is likely the basis of, or at least connected to, even more instances of deceit. I know a couple of compulsive liars and maintain friendly but arms-length relationships with them. I would likely respond in much the same manner to your hypothetical.
