(May 6, 2018 at 3:26 pm)Quick Wrote:(May 6, 2018 at 3:24 pm)Mathilda Wrote: That's always on my mind as well. But I also don't think that it should excuse him from the animosity he gets. I've seen people on other forums who started off as complete jerks and then turn their life around and become genuinely nice people. That won't happen if people excuse the behaviour and let it pass unchallenged. And if it is the way he is wired, then he needs to learn to adapt.
I do not think punishment is a good way to motivate people.
It's not punishment. It's cause and effect.