RE: How to not be desperate for a gf?
May 12, 2012 at 11:01 am
(This post was last modified: May 12, 2012 at 11:02 am by Reforged.)
How to not be desperate for a gf?
Try wasting four years of your life with someone who does nothing but break down your self-esteem, has not a romantic notion in her head and the only reason you stay with her is because you're too terrified of being alone... then grow a pair and tell her to fuck off.
That will definitely kill your sex drive. Seriously, I'm at the point I'd rather sit down with a series or two of south park, a special smoke and some takeaway pizza than pursue a love life. Not because the notion of love isn't appealing to me but because I know that 99.99% of the time thats not what a relationship leads to. If you're really unlucky you end up in a relationship like the one I was in and let me tell you, no amount of sex makes up for it. Seriously.
Thats not to say you shouldn't want it and if it happens it happens but if it doesn't then so what? You got better things to do that you know for sure will make you happy anyway. I mean shit, its proven you can simulate the sensation of love by eating large quantities of choclate. Thats not to say you should go do that but that kind of proves just how *special* it is.
You're young, you're your own person and you're free. Focus on enjoying that while you can, you might find someone you click with while you're at it.
Try wasting four years of your life with someone who does nothing but break down your self-esteem, has not a romantic notion in her head and the only reason you stay with her is because you're too terrified of being alone... then grow a pair and tell her to fuck off.
That will definitely kill your sex drive. Seriously, I'm at the point I'd rather sit down with a series or two of south park, a special smoke and some takeaway pizza than pursue a love life. Not because the notion of love isn't appealing to me but because I know that 99.99% of the time thats not what a relationship leads to. If you're really unlucky you end up in a relationship like the one I was in and let me tell you, no amount of sex makes up for it. Seriously.
Thats not to say you shouldn't want it and if it happens it happens but if it doesn't then so what? You got better things to do that you know for sure will make you happy anyway. I mean shit, its proven you can simulate the sensation of love by eating large quantities of choclate. Thats not to say you should go do that but that kind of proves just how *special* it is.
You're young, you're your own person and you're free. Focus on enjoying that while you can, you might find someone you click with while you're at it.
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