I don't understand why she is around so much. How come you permit it? If someone -- anyone -- was trying so hard to get between me and the man I loved, I'd be putting a stop to that tout de suite. How come she is around so much to watch you make your husband a cup of tea or a snack?
Start by controlling her access to the two of you. In other words, she is welcome when she is invited to dinner -- but not otherwise.
Start by controlling her access to the two of you. In other words, she is welcome when she is invited to dinner -- but not otherwise.