Sae, I can't tackle most of the above, but I think I CAN promise not to kill anyone you like for a while. The rest hurts my brain at the moment, but that one sounds quite do-able.
I'm really shitty at giving kudos and rep. That's because I would be inconsistent in remembering to do them, and also I don't really want it to show if any favouritism is happening. Even worse would be inconsistencies causing false favouritisms to show. So, fuck it. Just assume that I've given you some good rep and a number of kudos, and everyone should be happy...