Soulmates don't exist. Forget about it. Love is a state of mind. Pink and red don't go good together. Valentine's day sucks.
Having said that... I think people are connected in different ways. Some people have stronger connections because they have more things going for them. For example, a pair could be linked by a certain common taste (like wine). They are connected by wine. Another pair might be linked by energy, both liking each other's look, were at the right time and place that created a special bond and force (like a concert that created a feeling of attraction and romanticism). When people feel they have met their soulmate, I think the connection is thick. There are many links sort of braided together. It can even be one thing that kind of explodes in our view making everything seem huge and unique. It's just that important to us. I think this is special. I think it is wonderful for a person to find someone like this. I don't think we are limited to one person. Connections are everywhere, and the ones that pull us closer than others will make themselves visible, since they are strong.
I don't think I have ever been in love (as in deeply in love, stand the test of time kind of thing), but I know the feeling of attraction (more than physical). I have felt the need to mention the person's name, the way the mouth salivates when saying the name or thinking about him/her, wanting to protect the person, wanting to know the person, etc. So there is a connection. The more you feed into it, the thicker the connection can be. If there is no connection to begin with, there is no pushing it. It won't happen.
Now everyone can look at me funny and walk away slowly. I'm weird. I know.
Having said that... I think people are connected in different ways. Some people have stronger connections because they have more things going for them. For example, a pair could be linked by a certain common taste (like wine). They are connected by wine. Another pair might be linked by energy, both liking each other's look, were at the right time and place that created a special bond and force (like a concert that created a feeling of attraction and romanticism). When people feel they have met their soulmate, I think the connection is thick. There are many links sort of braided together. It can even be one thing that kind of explodes in our view making everything seem huge and unique. It's just that important to us. I think this is special. I think it is wonderful for a person to find someone like this. I don't think we are limited to one person. Connections are everywhere, and the ones that pull us closer than others will make themselves visible, since they are strong.
I don't think I have ever been in love (as in deeply in love, stand the test of time kind of thing), but I know the feeling of attraction (more than physical). I have felt the need to mention the person's name, the way the mouth salivates when saying the name or thinking about him/her, wanting to protect the person, wanting to know the person, etc. So there is a connection. The more you feed into it, the thicker the connection can be. If there is no connection to begin with, there is no pushing it. It won't happen.
Now everyone can look at me funny and walk away slowly. I'm weird. I know.
Pointing around: "Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, you're cool, fuck you, I'm out!"
Half Baked
"Let the atheists come to me, and stop keeping them away, because the kingdom of heathens belongs to people like these." -Saint Bacon
Half Baked
"Let the atheists come to me, and stop keeping them away, because the kingdom of heathens belongs to people like these." -Saint Bacon
