(June 3, 2018 at 9:54 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote: I don’t remember anyone getting this flustered up when Neo told Jor to go back to her full time job of sucking truck driver cock at the thru-way stop, lol. I don’t recall anyone having side conversations about Anomalocaris when he told MK in a thread to strap on his suicide vest. Maybe I was the only one who saw those posts and called out the authors?
I didn't see the Neo thing. I did see the Anomalocaris thing.
Neither of those people have the level of relationships that Hammy has/had with so many members here. I have had probably 3 conversations with Anomalocaris, one of which was telling him he was a shit person for saying something so horrible to MK. But that's besides the point.
I don't think anyone here (besides maybe Tibs ) is saying that Hammy should be written off forever. I certainly am not. I am perfectly happy to continue being friends with Hammy. I don't take the outbursts personally.
I just don't buy in to the idea that Hammy doesn't have any control over his behavior, and that we should always give him another inch.
I don't buy into the idea that if we try to approach him in a nice way and he reacts with a personal insult laced tirade that makes you wish Slack would implement a block feature, that means I did something wrong.
No. Hammy is a full grown adult. I think Jör is right, Hammy is learning how best to deal with his diagnosis. I can give him the benefit of the doubt, but, again, I am only going to go so far trying to help him and be nice to him if his reactions are so completely at odds with the tone of the conversation.
"There remain four irreducible objections to religious faith: that it wholly misrepresents the origins of man and the cosmos, that because of this original error it manages to combine the maximum servility with the maximum of solipsism, that it is both the result and the cause of dangerous sexual repression, and that it is ultimately grounded on wish-thinking." ~Christopher Hitchens, god is not Great
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