(December 6, 2013 at 2:28 pm)Sleepy Wrote: It's not permissible for a married women to deny her husband sex, but it's also not permissible for the man to rape that women. It's indeed a despicable and heinous crime.
Indeed Allah's wrath will be upon that person who rapes married or not. It's reprehensible but not rape. Because the wife and husband understand sex is a part of their marriage. Many scholars believe that the man should face some punishment and apologize.
Yes, it is rape. You can't just change the definition of a word to suit you.
(December 6, 2013 at 2:34 pm)Sleepy Wrote: In marriage there's no "I'm not in the mood"Are you seriously suggesting that when people are married they stop being human and become some kind of creature that's always in the mood? While you say it's not permissible for a man to force sex on his wife, that is as it should be. But if he does decide to have sex with her anyway when she doesn't want to that IS absolutely, undeniably rape. Nobody is ever under any obligation to have sex. Have some fucking respect for women and our needs ffs.
The marriages purpose is to be married and the things that entail that. Is it permissible for the man to forcefully have sex with the woman and hurt her. No it's not. But that's not considered rape. It's reprehensible