(August 21, 2014 at 4:07 am)Goosebump Wrote:(August 21, 2014 at 4:02 am)popeyespappy Wrote: Engaging an obnoxious drunk is an exercise in futility. You can continue telling him about your beliefs. Which I assumed from the OP was not an option you were interested in. You can ignore him. Which probably is not going to shut him up any time soon. You can tell him to fuck off. In which case I suggest you have a plan to kill him. Or you can walk away.
All those are valid options. I can't deny them. But none of them reconcile the problem with conversation. Not that I asked that be a requirement of suggestion in my post.
But it is the solution I seek.
I very much thank you for you input, and suspect it will be echoed. Many have a macho streak on the internet but you didn't parrot that. Kudos.
I still don't really have anything but the vaguest idea of this situation but a bottom line for me would be to never follow a girl no matter how much you like her to a party you don't want to be at. And if she's the kind of girl who loves going to these parties are you going to keep going to these events and continually be questioned?
I might have got the wrong idea about what's going on in this situation but I'm guessing because you're asking for advice about this that it isn't easily brushed away by just telling this drunk guy you don't want to talk so much about your beliefs. I personally like telling people about my beliefs so this wouldn't be a problem for me.
Are you ready for the fire? We are firemen. WE ARE FIREMEN! The heat doesn’t bother us. We live in the heat. We train in the heat. It tells us that we’re ready, we’re at home, we’re where we’re supposed to be. Flames don’t intimidate us. What do we do? We control the flame. We control them. We move the flames where we want to. And then we extinguish them.
Impersonation is treason.
