RE: Introduction
September 12, 2014 at 10:56 am
(This post was last modified: September 12, 2014 at 11:03 am by sswhateverlove.)
(September 12, 2014 at 10:34 am)whateverist Wrote: I suppose working with clients in psychotherapy, being treated with inflated respect is probably an occupational hazard. What do you call it, transference? What a shock it must be to come here where no one starts off with credentials they can't back up on the spot. I suspect you are enjoying this just a little, sswhatever. Probably feels grounding in a way.
No, I mean, as a psychotherapist who teaches people how to have healthy relationships (which many people don't have much experience with btw), I start by teaching them to set boundaries, to expect others to always treat them with respect and not abuse them, and to assert themselves if they feel disrespected or abused. I don't encourage respect exclusive to any status, profession, or familiarity, but generalized to everyone for the sake of having healthy relationships.
(September 12, 2014 at 10:54 am)JesusHChrist Wrote: Love, this isn't going well for you.
Well, that's your opinion I suppose.
I've had to assert myself, yes, some people obviously don't care for me, fine. Otherwise, I'm having some interesting discussions via my threads and I'm teaching people about respect from a therapeutic perspective.
You're assumption of how well this is going for me is noted, but you're obviously not me, so you are not an expert.
(September 12, 2014 at 10:45 am)Stimbo Wrote: Hmm. You sounded very much like a long-since departed member who crowed about his threads being the most popular, when half of them were taken up with him being a prat and the other half with everyone else telling him he's being a prat.
Well, your opinion is noted, but the intellectual discussions via my threads are going just fine now.
Here (on my Intro page btw- hello mods?) is where people continue telling me I'm being "prat" and I feel I have to keep defending myself.
Sooo.... yeah...