I think we can accept that Hammy has Autism and it is difficult for him to see how his words may affect others, but not impossible, especially when issues arise and are pointed out to him.
That's when the trouble starts because, instead of owning his own shit, as Joods put it, he tries to wriggle out of the situation using his considerable intellect.
He is a nice guy, for sure, but he gets lost sometimes and appears quite mean, especially if he considers himself backed into a corner, but I don't think he means it.
Having said that, nobody has to put up with anything they don't want to from Hammy just because he has Autism.
That doesn't do anyone any good.
That's just my take on it, I'm no expert. :-)
That's when the trouble starts because, instead of owning his own shit, as Joods put it, he tries to wriggle out of the situation using his considerable intellect.
He is a nice guy, for sure, but he gets lost sometimes and appears quite mean, especially if he considers himself backed into a corner, but I don't think he means it.
Having said that, nobody has to put up with anything they don't want to from Hammy just because he has Autism.
That doesn't do anyone any good.
That's just my take on it, I'm no expert. :-)