(November 13, 2018 at 11:58 pm)wyzas Wrote: Fine, I'm malicious, inhuman, callous and any other label you think applies. I'll take all the heat any of you want to give me.
Living in loss, remorse, regret and self pity is no way to live. It destroys the person and the people around them (if any remain). The group here seems to think that a miscarriage lies in some special category of loss that no woman can ever get over. Now, I'm not a woman so I can't speak first hand, but I have known a few that have had the experience. The ones that work their way thru the grief process recover, and don't continue to torture themselves, at least that's what I hear from them. Maybe they're lying, I can't really know for certain.
That’s probably the same impression she gives off to her friends. She came here to vent because out there she has to keep it together, perhaps.
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