girlish girls, manly men.

[John V]

Can't argue with that as far as decision making is concerned. Making it about masculinity is a bit silly though, you know, sometimes, woman might be smarter than you and be better at making a decision. Sounds crazy, I know, but I've seen it with my own eye. Also, some men are particularly happy in meaningful partnerships in which both sides contribute eye to eye according to their character and desires. Again, sounds crazy, I know...

Sure, whenever you talk about human behavior you have to talk in generalities, and there are exceptions. Out of billions of people I'm sure you can find a few Mr. Mom types who still get laid and are happy. But in general, men will be happier acting like men. Internet porn is a huge industry because males don't know how to, or don't bother to, be real men and get real sex regularly.