(August 25, 2015 at 11:20 am)rexbeccarox Wrote: I, for one, won't be apologizing for my schadenfreude in this case. Not after being a victim of the scumbag site and a scumbag who used it.
Let's see... what did that shit put me through that I didn't mention in my OP? The very real fear of any STD, but especially the bad ones; loss of general trust in anyone I date; loss of my five-year relationship and who I thought was my best friend; loss of other friends in the shuffle; a total change in my living situation. There's more, but those alone are enough for me to feel justified in enjoying this poetic justice.
Right or not, I don't think anyone here can blame you for feeling that way. What an awful thing to go through. It would seriously turn my whole world upside down if I found out my husband was doing that. If something so real to me turned out to be a lie, I would never again know what was real anymore. So sad.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh