(June 3, 2016 at 9:08 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote:(June 3, 2016 at 8:57 pm)Losty Wrote: Maybe I'm just too immature to see how wanting a serious relationship is more mature.
You're right. I still feel like a 'grew' out of it. Maybe it's not maturity, per se, but I do feel like something changed. I don't feel good about casual sex any more, and I think it has a lot to do with my state of mind as a 25 year old and my state of mind now. Maybe that's maturity, probably not. Because it changed with the elapsing of time, I feel like I "grew" out of it.
Either way, I wasn't thinking the alternative is a serious relationship.
Sorry, I wasn't being sarcastic. I was being serious. I mean...I'm 26. Maybe one day I too will outgrow casual sex. Currently it sounds cray to me though. Casual sex is where it's at. I'm not completely against romance but it's not sexual to me and it's definitely not sexy IMO. I think I have some weird disconnect in that area because of my past. I don't even generally like the idea of mixing sex with romance. It makes me feel super icky.