RE: Controversial views
April 23, 2016 at 10:43 am
(This post was last modified: April 23, 2016 at 10:44 am by Regina.)
(April 23, 2016 at 10:39 am)abaris Wrote:(April 23, 2016 at 10:33 am)Yeauxleaux Wrote: If you're a lesbian, supposedly attracted to women, why do you date "women" who look like ugly fat men?
By the same token you could ask, why do men date women being rather on the strong side. I once dated a girl, who really didn't have the ideal body measurements, but her personality made more than up for it. She was sexy because of her charisma, not because of her looks, although her face actually was pretty.
I feel like when guys do it though, they'll date a tomboy kind of woman, but she's still clearly female from a mile away. There's no ambiguity there. Same thing for gay men, they might date a feminine man, but he's still clearly a man.
I don't mean to make it sound like I'm so hung up on just looks, which is probably how my post sounded tbh. It's more the dating a woman who looks more like a man that confuses me.
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