(October 14, 2016 at 5:43 am)robvalue Wrote: That's cool, of course I don't expect anyone to just do what I say anyway. I'm just voicing my advice.
If your relationship isn't based on trust, and if he turned you on it wouldn't sting you, then by all means go for it. I'm never going to imply that anyone who associates with him is betraying me, or anything stupid like that. I'm only giving my honest opinion because I'm very concerned about the very real harm he can do. Very early on I saw a large number of indicators which made me immediately very suspicious about him. I began to feel almost sure what was going on. Since then I have become sure.
So I appreciate you do trust me, thank you By all means, enjoy his company, if that's how he makes you feel!
It used to sting me... until I realised it wasn't worth investing in and detached from it. It goes that way with all relationships with trust issues... there comes a point where it's 'this far and no further'... a point where you just walk away. So since then my' relationship' with him has been much more aloof and not from the same sort of emotionally invested perspective... but rather a more neutral, objective perspective. As for your last sentence, I wouldn't put it quite like that