RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
June 22, 2017 at 8:44 am
(This post was last modified: June 22, 2017 at 8:51 am by Regina.)
(June 20, 2017 at 10:53 am)Lutrinae Wrote: I recently saw a gay article on FB in relation to this, how hard it has become for many gay men to find someone.Sorry I never got notified of this reply for some reason
I think it's called ghosting.
Yeah, I actually came across that that term myself since I made that post you replied to, guess it really is such a huge thing they've even named it.
Idk it just pisses me off. I get that sometimes you do lose interest. I have myself in other guys before, and I've had other guys tell me they don't see it going anywhere. I respect that when they say it, because I know where we stand. I just think dropping someone with no explanation is shitty, it really leaves you wondering.
I've been getting more used to it since it does really happen often, I never chase once I realise what they're doing. However, the first few times when I was new to dating, I'm not gonna lie it shit me up and played with my mind a lot.
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"Ironically like the nativist far-Right, which despises multiculturalism, but benefits from its ideas of difference to scapegoat the other and to promote its own white identity politics; these postmodernists, leftists, feminists and liberals also use multiculturalism, to side with the oppressor, by demanding respect and tolerance for oppression characterised as 'difference', no matter how intolerable." - Maryam Namazie