RE: How the fuck is there a statute of limitations for rape in New York?
October 18, 2016 at 3:48 pm
(October 18, 2016 at 3:32 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote:(October 18, 2016 at 3:30 pm)Losty Wrote: If it's just a fantasy and you need to put the word forced in "quotations" then it is not forced sex. It's all an act. It may be a very elaborate and convincing act but it's still an act. The second the person pretending to resist changes their mind and begins resisting for real the consent is lost and the act, if continued, becomes rape. You cannot have consensual forced sex. You can only have consensual sex where both parties agree to pretend the sex is forced.
How does one tell when the other person changes their mind?
This is the reason I said only people who truly love, trust and understand each other to a t should do this, lest an actual rape occurs or a false one gets reported.
This could probably use its own thread tbh. It's hard to keep up with both conversations. In any sane relationship the people acting out the fantasy sex would have an agreed upon way for the fake victim to convey that they have changed their mind. Be it using a safe word, snapping their fingers, blinking their eyes. Anyone who goes into a scene like that without figuring those things out first is putting themselves at risk.
