[split] The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)

[Mystical]

Hammie I'm not going to block you. See u say things like "why am I even here" and its like.. hurts my heart. I mean, wtf am I supposed to say? Its the same post that started this commotion; people tried to give you constructive guidance and/or reassurances and/or criticism for sèeking reassurances, and things got heated. I personally feel you dealt Nymphadora an unfair response, thats the only reason I'm here. In short, I do care about you and Nymphadora and ShellB and Catholic Lady and Thumpalumpalicious and everyone else who don't want you to feel unwanted and leave feeling that way. We cant stop you from feeling that way, but I'm going to have to stop letting you make me feel bad when you post stuff like "I'm leaving and need reassurances that I shouldn't". Thats, literally, all this was about. Its dumb, you wear me out with your long post responses refuting people in other threads for trying to help you althen go to the departed thread and say you're leving, and I just.. cant. But that doesnt mean I dont want you around, ok? I just don't want to hold any responsibility for you feeling like u need to leave--by neglect or abandonment. You're a grown ass man, if you feel unwelcome its not because you're unwelcome on my end and thats the last time I'm going to say,it.