Getting groped on the bus

[Phaedra]

I'm sorry that happened, Kay. What a creep.

A few weeks ago I was at a show and the skeezer behind me kept rubbing against me. I initially thought that he was just gett pushed forward by the people behind him, but then he progressed to fondling my ass. Before I could turn around and slap him, the guys standing next to him told him to stop and pulled him away from me. Unfortunately this happens to me a lot at shows and bars It's disturbing, and I don't know why men see me as such a target.

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I remember walking up town and behind a lovely lady. She gave me a lovely smile. Anyway we were both heading for the town centre, she was in front of me. Now there were a couple of guys leaning against the side of a van and when she walked passed, one of them gave her the creepiest look. No flirting or anything like that but a real creepy look, the sort of look that would come from a soon to be rapist sort of thing. I could tell she was a little freaked out, I don't blame her. Gave the guy a dirty look and remained behind the girl. I actually thought the guy was going to grab her or something. It was the look and the body language. A wanna-be rapist.

There are a lot of sickos out there.

I could never touch any girl if I thought it would make her feel uncomfortable. In fact, Katie who kept asking me to kiss her one night, had to floor me and kiss me instead of the other way round. I was too busy thinking about her and making sure she was comfortable.
My confidence level is somewhat higher now. There's no way I could even contemplate what some perverts would do.

Everyday I actually hope a random girl floors me and pins me down.

That's very sweet of you. I wish more men were as respectful as you are.