Does anyone want to keep in contact?

[festive1]

I'm bad about keeping in touch in general, but I'd like you to stick around. Or at least pop in every once in a while.

[Edwardo Piet]

No...don't leave (again). Stay. :-)

Can I do anything important on these forums yet? Do you really need me? I don't have any time to stick around regularly and be a forumer anymore now do I? That's the whole purpose of this thread isn't it?

[KichigaiNeko]

I guess i forgot to mention that my last couple of Facebook's i accidentally locked myself out of? lol

My active Facebook is: [email protected] and so is my email, but, just like Summer says, can anyone who wishes to add me let me know who they are beforehand please?

Gotcha! Re-Friend request sent. I like Facebook as I can keep tabs on what is happening to friends and family without having to intrude on their lives......unless I want to. I'm not one to be in communication with everyone important to me every day.

[Violet]

No...don't leave (again). Stay. :-)

Agree.

Want takes a lot of effort and even more energy, so no, I don't.

Doesn't mean I wouldn't like to stay in contact. Not that I have anything to say, of course

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I'm bad about keeping in touch in general, but I'd like you to stick around. Or at least pop in every once in a while.

Haven't spoken to my best friend in 6 months. Think he's still alive, haven't looked into it though.

I somehow doubt that you're quite this bad Borrowed my brother's phone to tell my father Happy Birthday, totally knew about another brother's birthday and still didn't call him up or even facebook him a happy birthday.

Nineteen and I'd be a hermit if the internet didn't exist. Now that's just sad TT__TT

[festive1]

Is this a challenge as to my bad keeping in touch habits?

[thesummerqueen]

Is this a challenge as to my bad keeping in touch habits?

I've got a few friends whom I've known since I was 5. We force ourselves to keep in touch by purposely making handwritten letters or sending cards with little notes. One of the guys gets all happy inside - he lives in Germany right now where everything is old and I always close my letters with a wax seal and rose impress, all old-fashioned-like. It makes the keeping in touch part a bit more fun and engaging. Plus sending silly little gifts. A friend of mine in France sends me Mermaid's Tears and stuff from the beaches of Nice, and I send him bits of bracken and pressed flowers from the mountains down here. Or a Death Star tea infuser to another friend in Germany, who sent me a necklace with a rose pendant on it. When you start doing that with your friends, it makes it easier.

[Violet]

Is this a challenge as to my bad keeping in touch habits?

If yours can be seen as a challenge: you should stop that

[Edwardo Piet]

Nineteen and I'd be a hermit if the internet didn't exist. Now that's just sad TT__TT

I would try, and if I couldn't hack it I'd commit suicide - which I've already tried once. I've been on computers for 18 years and on the net for 12 years - half my life time - also, I didn't leave the house on my own until I was 19 - your age. So, I kinda spent a while on computers lol.... and 16 hours a day for a year and a half at one point, then had an acute breakdown for 8 weeks and it was still a year before I left the house on my own, life can be pretty interesting can't it? I wonder if I'll ever actually get laid or if I'm going to have to stick with enjoying masochistically ridiculing myself after I get teased and rejected, at best, and ignored at worst? - well, that's the worst so far. I also had my third major breakdown recently: great ain't it?

I'm just an irritating twat, a liar, it's all my fault, I'm selfish, ignorant, greedy, lazy, annoying, a retard, a moron, an idiot, an uneducated moron, I'm confusing, peculiar, perverse, weird, strange, a weirdo, argumentative, disagreeable, perverse, I think too much, I over analyze, I talk bollocks, I talk nonsense, I'm petty, I'm a nitpicker, I'm a pedant, I play dumb I think I know it all, I'm arrogant, I'm cocky, dangerous, deluded and insane; I'm irrelevant and I can't stay on topic and don't listen and then some... great isn't it?

[festive1]

I'm just an irritating twat, a liar, it's all my fault, I'm selfish, ignorant, greedy, lazy, annoying, a retard, a moron, an idiot, an uneducated moron, I'm confusing, peculiar, perverse, weird, strange, a weirdo, argumentative, disagreeable, perverse, I think too much, I over analyze, I talk bollocks, I talk nonsense, I'm petty, I'm a nitpicker, I'm a pedant, I play dumb I think I know it all, I'm arrogant, I'm cocky, dangerous, deluded and insane; I'm irrelevant and I can't stay on topic and don't listen and then some... great isn't it?

As is everyone else who considers themselves human. As far as I'm concerned, you're ahead of the game, being able to see and acknowledge your faults.

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Is this a challenge as to my bad keeping in touch habits?

If yours can be seen as a challenge: you should stop that

Yeah, I get confused about the line between, "Buck up, we've all been there," and criticism. My experience leads me to take things as criticism that aren't intended as such. But asking if it was a challenge is better than just firing off... Baby steps.

[Tonus]

As is everyone else who considers themselves human. As far as I'm concerned, you're ahead of the game, being able to see and acknowledge your faults.

Pfffffft, speak for yourself. I'm prefect!!!