Damn my libido!

[Violet]

Annnnnd this is why I love you favorite song, mine. That. I'm drunk. I could use a French Hooker right now, oh yes.

Sure beats a french inhaler, though.

[Edwardo Piet]

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Halycon, this is what I suggest. Its the fast road to opening yourself to the world and its a wonderful way to explore who you are. Forgive me for being blunt or assumptive, but i dont know you that well my answer to your woes: Well, it's called Kink. Write that down start by reading some. Then sign up for forums and figure out with those very helpful individuals who you are and what you like. They'll steer you in the right direction based on you just talking about yourself. Becoming self aware (forgive me for any assumptions), can help you immensely with your sexuality and self image. Once you're sure of who you are, try just talking to girls (or guys) idk your preference and talk online in your comfort zone. I guarantee during this process you will come out of your shell and find others who understand. Try literotica.com for a start, if any of this sounds amiable to you

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Thanks but this sounds NSFW, which means NSF family atmosphere either. Any ideas?

[Terr]

Well HalcyonicTrust, respect is due for having the nerve to start this thread, I couldn't have done it.

[Edwardo Piet]

Weakling!!

[Faith No More]

That's true. But they aren't; do you have any ideas how I can get you closer to providing soulutions?

If you have any details or specifics that you think might help, let us know. Like what kind of women are you going after? Perhaps that could be part of the problem.

True. Besides I've tried that. First of all it's false and I'm usually more interesting when I'm not trying to be, secondly no girl finds me interesting either way anyway.

The worst thing you could do is to pretend to be something you're not. Try to work on changing yourself in ways that give you attributes that people are generally drawn to. For example, work on building up self-confidence.

Because they never show it and reject me if I ever show it to them. Because they always have a reason to not talk or do anything with me.

Because they say "I don't like you that way".

"You're just a friend to me".

"You're not my type".

"Just so you know, we're only ever going to be friends and that's it".

Perhaps it isn't that they don't find you interesting. Maybe you come across as desperate, or your approach is wrong. I think the first thing you need to do is stop with the self-berating. You have to become comfortable with yourself before others will.

[Edwardo Piet]

[...]what kind of women are you going after? Perhaps that could be part of the problem.

A woman who:

1. Likes me.

2. Finds me attractive.

3. Doesn't want commitment

4. I am attracted to.

5. I like.

[Walking Void]

I could replace 1 to 5 with the words "wants to get some". Have You ordered any hookers ever?

[Violet]

^You should start, Evie.

Whores are probably the most easily pursuable avenue you will find. Just... remember to buy a condom prior to such, please

[Mystical]

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Halycon, this is what I suggest. Its the fast road to opening yourself to the world and its a wonderful way to explore who you are. Forgive me for being blunt or assumptive, but i dont know you that well my answer to your woes: Well, it's called Kink. Write that down start by reading some. Then sign up for forums and figure out with those very helpful individuals who you are and what you like. They'll steer you in the right direction based on you just talking about yourself. Becoming self aware (forgive me for any assumptions), can help you immensely with your sexuality and self image. Once you're sure of who you are, try just talking to girls (or guys) idk your preference and talk online in your comfort zone. I guarantee during this process you will come out of your shell and find others who understand. Try literotica.com for a start, if any of this sounds amiable to you

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Thanks but this sounds NSFW, which means NSF family atmosphere either. Any ideas?

Screen protector

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I mean I'm in a family atmosphere. I pulled it off. For one thing, your business on the internet is yours alone.
Anyone who comes lookin over your shoulder should have the decency not to look at what you're doing.
Secondly, text isn't all that incriminating especially if the kids cant read.
C. Sit with your back to the wall
4. Read at night after people are in bed
Lastly, what are you waiting for?

[Edwardo Piet]

I mean I'm in a family atmosphere. I pulled it off. For one thing, your business on the internet is yours alone.

I have to do what the head of the house says.

Anyone who comes lookin over your shoulder should have the decency not to look at what you're doing.

Should, but won't and doesn't.

Secondly, text isn't all that incriminating especially if the kids cant read.

They can, and the adults won't like it either.

C. Sit with your back to the wall

Desktop computer.

4. Read at night after people are in bed

Everyone is made to go to bed at 10:45PM and in room with lights off at 11.

Lastly, what are you waiting for?

Gotta move out as soon as I get a place.

Otherwise good idea.