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Psychic and the wife
#21
RE: Psychic and the wife
(August 15, 2013 at 11:25 am)sarcasticgeographer Wrote: Thank you for the delightful and entertaining responses everyone! Sadly, I have told the wife she can go, but with one condition. I will be going to the meeting with her, and we will then discuss afterwards.

It was a bitter debate between the wife and I with me compromising. If it is SO important to her, I relented and decided that one time possibly couldn't hurt. But I will put my foot down, should I see this become a recurring pattern. I will keep you informed on the meeting.

Why is it SO important to her?
Skepticism is not a position; it is an approach to claims.
Science is not a subject, but a method.
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#22
RE: Psychic and the wife
Shoot...have any twisted sexual fantasies the wife won't agree to go along with? Call up the psychic in advance to plant information in her head. For the extra it costs, you'll either get your rocks off, or the missus will realize what a crock psychics are. Win/win!
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#23
RE: Psychic and the wife
What! She wants to go get a reading? No! How dare she? Ahhhh!

Get a divorce.

Or a beer. Apples, eiples. Bananas, beneineis. Same thing.
Pointing around: "Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, you're cool, fuck you, I'm out!"
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#24
RE: Psychic and the wife
Nora/Ivy:

It isn't that simple. Basically, since we are married, money is community property. Any decision on how money is spent must be mutually agreed upon. My fear is that this psychic will try to swindle more visits out of my wife, hence deducting money from our bank account. I feel there is a better utility for the money than visiting con artists. Also, my wife thinks it is "important" that I go with her. Now, if my wife gets birthday money or some gift, then she is free to do as she wishes. The only part I am objecting to is how she treats our community property.

Chas: My wife's grandmother claimed to be a psychic and did readings for people all the time. Yet, she did not charge for her services. My hangup with most psychics is the money they charge and how gullible some people can be. According to my wife, her grandmother was quite good and was quite right with her predictions.
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#25
RE: Psychic and the wife
So do what everybody else says. Have fun with it. Your wife will see how silly it is.
Pointing around: "Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, you're cool, fuck you, I'm out!"
Half Baked

"Let the atheists come to me, and stop keeping them away, because the kingdom of heathens belongs to people like these." -Saint Bacon
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#26
RE: Psychic and the wife
I'd take her up on the offer. Consider it a date and high quality entertainment. I can only imagine that it would be much better than spending money on the garbage that Holloywood is pumping into movie theaters.

The bonus is that unlike a movie, this show is interactive; you can endlessly fuck with the charlatan. After, you can be assured that your wife will never again request you participation in these sorts of ventures.
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#27
RE: Psychic and the wife
Derren Brown's Forer experiment text:

Quote:You are a person prone to bouts of self-examination. This is in sharp contrast to a striking ability you have developed to appear very socially engaged, even the life and soul of the party; but in a way that only convinces others. You are all too aware of it being a façade.

This means that you will often be at a gathering and find yourself playing a part. While on the one hand you’ll be talkative and funny, you’ll be detaching yourself to the point where you will find yourself watching everything going on around you and feeling utterly unable to engage. You’ll play conversations back to yourself in your head and wonder what that person really meant when he said such-and-such — conversations that other people wouldn’t give a second thought to.

How have you learned to deal with this conflict? Through exercising control. You like to show a calm, self-assured fluid kind of stability (but because this is self-consciously created, it will create bouts of frustrated silliness and a delight in extremes, or at least a delight in being seen to be extreme). You most easily recognise this control in how you are with people around you. You have learned to protect yourself by keeping people at bay. Because in the past you have learned to be disappointed by people (and because there were issues with you adjusting to your sexuality), you instinctively keep people at arms’ length, until you decide they are allowed over that magic line into your group of close friends. However, once across that line, the problem is that an emotional dependency kicks in which leaves you feeling very hurt or rejected if it appears that they have betrayed that status.

Because you are prone to self-examination, you will be aware of these traits. However, you are unusually able to examine even that self-examination, which means that you have become concerned about what the real you is. You have become all too aware of façades, of sides of yourself which you present to the world, and you wonder if you have lost touch with the real and spontaneous you.

You are very creative, and have tried different avenues to utilize that ability. It may not be that you specifically, say, paint; it may be that your creativity shows itself in more subtle ways, but you will certainly find yourself having vivid and well-formed ideas which others will find hard to grasp. You set high standards for yourself, though, and in many ways are a bit of a perfectionist. The problem is, though, that it means you often don’t get stuff done, because you are frustrated by the idea of mediocrity and are wearied by the idea of starting something afresh. However, once your brain is engaged you’ll find yourself sailing. Very much this will likely lead to you having considered writing a novel or some such, but a fear that you won’t be able to achieve quite what you want stops you from getting on with it. But you have a real vision for things, which others fall short of. Particularly in your academic/college situation, you are currently fighting against restraints upon your desire to express yourself freely.

Your relationship with your parents (there is a suggestion that one is no longer around, or at least emotionally absent) is under some strain. You wish to remain fond of them but recent issues are causing frustration – from your side far more than theirs. In fact they seem unaware of your thoughts on the matter. Partly this is because there are ways in which you have been made to feel isolated from certain groups in the past – something of an outsider. Now what is happening is that you are taking that outsider role and defending it to the point of consciously avoiding being part of a group. This will serve you well in your creative and career pursuits. You have an enormous cynicism towards those who prefer to be part of a group or who exhibit any cliquey behaviour, and you always feel a pang of disappointment when you see your ‘close’ friends seeming to follow that route. Deep down it feels like rejection.

However, for all that introspection, you have developed a sensational, dry sense of humour that makes connections quickly and wittily and will leave you making jokes that go right over the heads of others. You delight in it so much that you’ll often rehearse jokes or amusing voices to yourself in order to ’spontaneously’ impress others with them. But this is a healthy desire to impress, and although you hate catching yourself at it, it’s nothing to be so worried about.

There’s also an odd feeling that you should have been born in a different century. You might be able to make more sense of that than I can.

There are some strong monetary shifts taking place at the moment. Both the recent past and what’s in store over the next few months represent quite a change.

You have links at the moment with America*, which are quite interesting, and will look to yield worthwhile results. You’re naturally a little disorganized. A look around your living space would show a box of photos, unorganised into albums, out-of-date medicines, broken items not thrown out, and notes to yourself which are significantly out of date. Something related to this is that you lack motivation. Because you’re resourceful and talented enough to be pretty successful when you put your mind to things, this encourages you to procrastinate and put them off. Equally, you’ve given up dreams a little easily when your mind flitted elsewhere. There are in your home signs of an excursion into playing a musical instrument, which you have since abandoned, or are finding yourself less interested in. (This may alternatively relate to poetry and creative writing you’ve briefly tried your hand at and left behind you.) You have a real capacity for deciding that such-and-such a thing (or so-and-so a person) will be the be all and end all of everything and be with you for ever. But you’d rather try and fail, and swing from one extreme to the other, than settle for the little that you see others content with.

Conclusion: It’s very interesting doing your reading, as you do present something of a conundrum, which won’t surprise you. You are certainly bright, but unusually open to life’s possibilities – something not normally found among achieving people. I’d say you’d do well to be less self-absorbed, as it tends to distance you a little, and to relinquish some of the control you exercise when you present that stylized version of yourself to others. You could let people in a little more, but I am aware that there is a darkness you feel you should hide (much of this is in the personal/relationship/sexual area, and is related to a neediness which you don’t like).

You really have an appealing personality – genuinely. Many thanks for doing this, and for offering something far more substantial than most.



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