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Have you ever felt you were missing out on the good things church has to offer?
#21
RE: Have you ever felt you were missing out on the good things church has to offer?
(September 29, 2013 at 12:40 am)apophenia Wrote:


Oddly enough, the hymnals at UU church kind of creeped me out. It's not particularly musically impressive, and I'm always afraid I'm being subtly brain washed by the process. Give me good old, straight up, Latin mass instead.



Me too. I like the sincerity and purity of intent in the music but the words can be a buzz kill.
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#22
RE: Have you ever felt you were missing out on the good things church has to offer?
Let me just say nope. Hated waking up for 11am on sunday morning
To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow,
Creeps in this petty pace from day to day,
To the last syllable of recorded time;
And all our yesterdays have lighted fools
The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle!
Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player,
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage,
And then is heard no more. It is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing.
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#23
RE: Have you ever felt you were missing out on the good things church has to offer?
(September 29, 2013 at 12:51 am)Lemonvariable72 Wrote: Let me just say nope. Hated waking up for 11am on sunday morning

Waking up at 11am?

Sunday School started at 10am. Slacker.
Everything I needed to know about life I learned on Dagobah.
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#24
RE: Have you ever felt you were missing out on the good things church has to offer?
(September 29, 2013 at 12:59 am)Rahul Wrote:
(September 29, 2013 at 12:51 am)Lemonvariable72 Wrote: Let me just say nope. Hated waking up for 11am on sunday morning

Waking up at 11am?

Sunday School started at 10am. Slacker.
Yes but that is for kids Lil, I do not miss 11 an mass with a hang over
To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow,
Creeps in this petty pace from day to day,
To the last syllable of recorded time;
And all our yesterdays have lighted fools
The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle!
Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player,
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage,
And then is heard no more. It is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing.
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#25
RE: Have you ever felt you were missing out on the good things church has to offer?
(September 28, 2013 at 6:46 pm)artistriley Wrote: Have you ever felt you were missing out on the good things church has to offer?

Such as?

(September 28, 2013 at 6:46 pm)artistriley Wrote: Do you think I will be disappointed?

Regarding what?
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#26
RE: Have you ever felt you were missing out on the good things church has to offer?
Some churches are really pretty.

I don't need to be a Christian to appreciate the impressive things in life, so no, I'm missing out on nothing.
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#27
RE: Have you ever felt you were missing out on the good things church has to offer?
Why bother going to a place, where I do not worship their god! They take money, which barely helps the poor. Religion is a business, and their profits are large.

I live around a few mega-churches. The pastor rides a brand new Maserati to include his daughter. He wares expensive suits, and always dines at the expensive venues. I do not support that! Why not feed the poor? If I want to help the community, I wold rather go to a soup kitchen to help feed the poor, or habitat for humanity to help build a new home for a disadvantage family.

I do not need to be entertain by a man rampaging around stadium seating, and hitting people with his jacket and talking about fairytails. The congregation have never read the bible!
Imagination will often carry us to worlds that never were. But without it we go nowhere. - Carl Sagan
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#28
RE: Have you ever felt you were missing out on the good things church has to offer?
(September 28, 2013 at 6:46 pm)artistriley Wrote: Did you know that unitarian churches welcome atheists? I'm tolerant of other people's beliefs (although I may have a tendency to ask too many questions) and I think there's a lot to be gained from a church as a community. Even though I don't believe in supernatural things I still feel a sense of "spirituality" as reverence and awe of nature and science. Do you think I will be disappointed?

To answer the question in the OP, no I do not miss church at all. I will say I used to attend a UU church when I was a newbie atheist, and it served its purpose for it's time, but listening to any superstition, as nice as the people were of all religions that attended, I got tired of it because it was nonsense, not worth the socializing.
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#29
RE: Have you ever felt you were missing out on the good things church has to offer?
I can't miss what I've never spent much time doing. I've attended church services only to appease certain church-going family members, and that very rarely (think midnight mass stuff). I find all the ritual and expense to put on the show rather vulgar. I am impressed with the beauty of the buildings but simultaneously sad over the underlying inspiration for them.

The only exception was prowling around the Exeter Cathedral in Devon while the choir was practicing for Evensong. I gave myself over to their extremely moving music, sat undisturbed at the base of one of the massive stone columns and just listened to the impeccable beauty of it with tears coursing down my cheeks. I only wish humans could be so inspired by the jaw-dropping natural world all around them without necessity of assigning credit for same to a god.
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#30
RE: Have you ever felt you were missing out on the good things church has to offer?
(September 29, 2013 at 3:13 am)Dragonetti Wrote: If I want to help the community, I wold rather go to a soup kitchen to help feed the poor, or habitat for humanity to help build a new home for a disadvantage family.

I never realized until I did Habitat with my frat, but it is very christian based. Every morning before we started working the entire group would pray. And grace was done before lunch too. All in all though its still a good group, I wouldn't mind doing it again.

But to answer the OP question, I've never really felt like I missed anything from a church but then again I never really went to church much as a kid. My parents are pretty lapsed Catholics.
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