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RE: Do you care about your significant other's sexual past?
April 20, 2015 at 4:46 am
Wait...there's cake? No one told me there'd be cake.
Seriously, though, I have a hard time giving even a small shit about my partners' pasts. When I was in my early 30s, however, I dated a girl for whom that sort of thing was important. She wasn't exactly badgering me about my past, but the constant hints all related to how many partners I'd had were getting annoying, so I told her. It was a substantial number of liaisons. She called me a sexist pig shithead and walked out of my life.
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RE: Do you care about your significant other's sexual past?
April 20, 2015 at 4:49 am
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(April 20, 2015 at 4:46 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: Wait...there's cake? No one told me there'd be cake.
Seriously, though, I have a hard time giving even a small shit about my partners' pasts. When I was in my early 30s, however, I dated a girl for whom that sort of thing was important. She wasn't exactly badgering me about my past, but the constant hints all related to how many partners I'd had were getting annoying, so I told her. It was a substantial number of liaisons. She called me a sexist pig shithead and walked out of my life.
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You just made a great argument for why someone would want to know (not her dumb "sexist pig" comment). But, I'd be like her, I'm wouldn't be as into someone who's the town bicycle.
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RE: Do you care about your significant other's sexual past?
April 20, 2015 at 4:51 am
I'd be fucking this forum right now if I could find the right hole.
Haha, I should have gone pro.
As for open relationships, they are not for me but I totally understand it would be right for some people. I think as long as people are honest and both agree, all is well.
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RE: Do you care about your significant other's sexual past?
April 20, 2015 at 5:02 am
I only deal with virgins!
You guys who want them already practiced, send them over, I work my magic on them, and then you can have your go in the used-car merry-go-round! 
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RE: Do you care about your significant other's sexual past?
April 20, 2015 at 5:11 am
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(April 20, 2015 at 4:49 am)Godslayer Wrote: But, I'd be like her, I'm wouldn't be as into someone who's the town bicycle. At least your next partner knows your affection for him/her isn't skin-deep.
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RE: Do you care about your significant other's sexual past?
April 20, 2015 at 5:15 am
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(April 20, 2015 at 5:11 am)Nestor Wrote: (April 20, 2015 at 4:49 am)Godslayer Wrote: But, I'd be like her, I'm wouldn't be as into someone who's the town bicycle. At least your next partner knows your affection for him/her isn't skin-deep.
I don't agree with you at all. What's wrong with my preference that someone I have sex hasn't fucked the whole block? I'm just not into people who get around with anyone and everyone, so?
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RE: Do you care about your significant other's sexual past?
April 20, 2015 at 5:20 am
(April 20, 2015 at 3:47 am)Nestor Wrote: Right after high school I dated my art teacher who was 31 years my senior and from what I gathered she was quite promiscuous in her youth... I want to say the number of partners she had mentioned was upwards of 200... but that may be a drastic embellishment of my memory. I know it was a lot. And to be honest I didn't give a shit. All I thought was, "Wow! And she says I'm a good lover... I'm the man!" It was definitely a confidence booster.
The amount of times I wanked over my art teacher in school was ridiculous, I'm glad they brought back the kudos system just for the sake of me giving you kudos for that.
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RE: Do you care about your significant other's sexual past?
April 20, 2015 at 5:23 am
(April 20, 2015 at 3:47 am)Nestor Wrote: Right after high school I dated my art teacher who was 31 years my senior and from what I gathered she was quite promiscuous in her youth... I want to say the number of partners she had mentioned was upwards of 200... but that may be a drastic embellishment of my memory. I know it was a lot. And to be honest I didn't give a shit. All I thought was, "Wow! And she says I'm a good lover... I'm the man!" It was definitely a confidence booster.
Yeah, women never embellish the man's performance to the man's face, never happens. Quick alternate theory to your story, not saying this is the case, But, maybe she said you were good, because you weren't, and just wanted to boost your ego. Because honestly even if you were good, how could she remember, that's a lot of bangin' man.
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RE: Do you care about your significant other's sexual past?
April 20, 2015 at 7:14 am
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(April 20, 2015 at 5:15 am)Godslayer Wrote: (April 20, 2015 at 5:11 am)Nestor Wrote: At least your next partner knows your affection for him/her isn't skin-deep.
I don't agree with you at all. What's wrong with my preference that someone I have sex hasn't fucked the whole block? I'm just not into people who get around with anyone and everyone, so? What constitutes the whole block? I'm not saying there's anything wrong with preferring a partner who hasn't already had theIr orifices explored again and again... and again... but you would break up with someone you had already been dating for a substantial amount of time if you asked them about their sexual past and it consisted of the entire football team? What's the cut off? That you can count her number of sexual liaisons on both hands or just the one you'll be using again after you've dumped her?
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RE: Do you care about your significant other's sexual past?
April 20, 2015 at 7:56 am
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(April 20, 2015 at 7:14 am)Nestor Wrote: What's the cut off? Maybe one should not just weigh it by numbers but also figure into the equation who was involved. Like - what, you did it with that guy as well? Get out of my bed!11! 
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