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Women's clothes?
#31
RE: Women's clothes?
(January 13, 2016 at 5:00 am)Alex K Wrote:



(January 12, 2016 at 8:17 pm)vorlon13 Wrote:


Coming around to my ways, huh, Alex?

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#32
RE: Women's clothes?
I don't appreciate that they are distracting, and that women are wearing yoga pants like they are jeans now adays but who the fuck cares about what I think, it's not up to me. I don't like to talk about this much because my opinions are not favorable by the majority in any means. However, why don't I blow off some steam and share what i've thought for a long time on the subject;


I have some minority opinions on the subject, but I know they are incorrect. I hate that it seems every girl now adays is feeling pressured in to wearing provocative and skimpy clothing because it's become a social norm, anyone who isn't dressing like this is seen as less attractive, people who don't want people to look at their body are wearing clothes specifically meant for people to look at their body. Again I know i'm wrong, but I don't like that most women wear yoga pants all the time currently. Yoga pants were never intended to be a fashion trend platforming the ability to flaunt one's body, which is the majority's intention by dressing this way now a-days, they were meant to give maximum flexibility, for, yoga. I don't think it's cute, or pretty to wear skimpy outfits, I think it's attention whoring labeled discreetly as a popular fashion trend. To some extent, yes, I wish women would dress more proper. Not because I think there's anything wrong with someone who wants to flaunt their body, but because people are misguidedly dressing as if they want to flaunt their body when it's the opposite of their intention and will valiantly defend their fashion choice against anyone wanting to question the motives in dressing provocatively when labeling this hypocritically as the opposite. There's this social pre-conceived notion that anyone who wants to criticize the fact that a woman is purposely dressing one way and then turning back around and claiming it's for the bullshit excuse of "comfort", is somehow by definition misogynist and is avocating against a woman's right to chose how to dress. In the reality, this is bullshit indoctrination from the feminist movement that stuck to society in general that any time a man is criticizing a girl's dress code it's for only one reason; that they want to restrict women's clothing from being provocative. As a result we have these arrogant, obnoxious, self-righteous teenage girls dressing with skin tight yoga pants two sizes too small, and a shirt with a mid drift 3 inches thick, that think anyone who comments on what they're wearing in a demeaning or questioning tone deserves to be castrated for even thinking she was dressing so provocatively. It's the lingering idea from before the Woman's Rights movement that women need to dress to appease men's desire for conserving one's beauty, that anyone who decides to ask a polite and respectful girl why she is dressing almost naked is to be immediately labeled as attempting to insult, when in reality they are ironically giving a compliment saying that someone with such a likeable personality doesn't need to dress like to exaggerate and for lack of better words, a slut, in order to feel accepted by her peers, that in reality a woman's personality is in most instances thrown out the window when society is filled with people purposely provoking men with no intention to do so because of a misled social norm acting as a unconscious subtle rule that provocative clothes being criticized is  to be immediately labeled as an unfair misogynistic bias disregarded as discrimination punishable by ostracization in accordance to the unwritten superficial make believe fanciful idea that because women now have rights, anything even remotely derogatory shot in her direction is wanting to infringe on those rights.

That's my two cents. Society doesn't, and will never agree with me, so I don't speak about it much. I'm not claiming women shouldn't wear what they chose, but the TLDR would be; If you are going to dress provocatively don't be surprised when called out for it, and don't hypocritically play victim as if it's his fault for even suggesting you were dressing for attention while proceeding to continue dressing solely for that purpose even if unconsciously so.
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#33
RE: Women's clothes?
(January 16, 2016 at 2:52 am)Heat Wrote: I don't appreciate that they are distracting, and that women are wearing yoga pants like they are jeans now adays but who the fuck cares about what I think, it's not up to me. I don't like to talk about this much because my opinions are not favorable by the majority in any means. However, why don't I blow off some steam and share what i've thought for a long time on the subject;

My take on it is this.  You're female, you wear sexy camel-toe-revealing yoga pants, you're walking porn for me.  I don't much care if you think I should be looking or not.  And I'm perfectly fine with being distracted.

But I don't want to be facing a woman with a D-size boob job wearing C-cups telling me "Like oh my gawwwd.  I'm up heeerre."  No you're not.  Up there is only bubble gum and hot air.
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#34
RE: Women's clothes?
(January 16, 2016 at 2:59 am)bennyboy Wrote:
(January 16, 2016 at 2:52 am)Heat Wrote: I don't appreciate that they are distracting, and that women are wearing yoga pants like they are jeans now adays but who the fuck cares about what I think, it's not up to me. I don't like to talk about this much because my opinions are not favorable by the majority in any means. However, why don't I blow off some steam and share what i've thought for a long time on the subject;

My take on it is this.  You're female, you wear sexy camel-toe-revealing yoga pants, you're walking porn for me.  I don't much care if you think I should be looking or not.  And I'm perfectly fine with being distracted.

But I don't want to be facing a woman with a D-size boob job wearing C-cups telling me "Like oh my gawwwd.  I'm up heeerre."  No you're not.  Up there is only bubble gum and hot air.
I don't want to be distracted. It might sound like i'm on my moral high horse, or some other shit, but I would rather just be able to treat, act, and interact with women equally without having to be distracted by revealing clothes. Ironically, this inequality accusing for anyone criticizing is the opposite of what would actually be equal. I'm not saying they shouldn't be allowed to do ___, i'm saying don't think you're doing ___ while clearly doing ___.

In a perfect world I wouldn't have to worry about one-way attractions that are solely based on clothes which are unnecessarily revealing.

"If you don't like it don't look!"
Well then don't dress specifically for the purpose of getting the most people to look at you as possible.


I just can't stand seeing 90% of girls fitting this category because of this socially developed norm, that women should be allowed to dress as revealing as possible without being questioned on their motives. Unless i'm super bored, I don't have the time to be distracted by something that is completely out of my control, and then feel bad about awkwardly looking, or be silently or verbally blamed for it. Women need to fucking grow up and stop acting like children who steal their siblings toy and then claim it was the other person's fault for placing it there in the first place.

Sooner or later female's are going to start strutting around in next to nothing as already being done, free of judgement as society has built up slutty clothing to be respectable. I'm not calling the female slutty, i'm calling the clothes slutty. I'm not calling the female unworthy of respect, i'm calling the clothes not worthy of it. And then people claim it's just their personal fashion choice, and it's how they identify as. Really? I didn't know you were so proud to be identified as a slut, because there's no other fucking reason to dress in skin tight clothes that push it to the very edge of how little one can wear to be covered, and then turn around and claim your intention has nothing to fucking do with any of the connotations linked to having very little clothes on, that is fucking ludicrous, hypocrisy, and the epitome of rights being mistaken for entitlement.
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Truth doesn't accommodate to personal opinions.
The choice is yours. 
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#35
RE: Women's clothes?
Quote:claiming it's for the bullshit excuse of "comfort"

I am a 39 year old female and I almost exclusively wear yoga pants.

And yes, it is for comfort.

I'm a homebody with no social life at the moment,
and I'm wearing them around the house, 90% of the time
...or just to run quick errands, or to walk the dog.

If I leave the house while wearing yoga pants,
I tie a hoodie around my waist to cover my butt WITHOUT EXCEPTION,
...because I agree with you that it is very form-fitting,
and I don't WANT the guys at the grocery store checking out my butt.

When I was 19, yes, I dressed to get attention.

Not now.

Yet I wear yoga pants all the time.

(And both my sisters are the same as me, in this respect).

They really are comfortable:
They stay up, despite having no belt.
They stretch; they don't cut into you the way jeans do.

and another modesty feature I appreciate about yoga pants is the extra-high waist.

Most of the time, women fold it down, double, over the hips.

but I like to wear it all the way UP,

with an extra-long t-shirt pulled DOWN, OVER TOP OF IT
...so I don't show any butt-crack when I have to stoop or squat down for any reason;
plus the hoodie tied round my waist on top of THAT, for extra coverage, and keep everything in place.

I don't buy yoga pants that are semi-transparent.

I don't wear thongs underneath them;
I don't want my underwear to show.

I don't buy yoga pants two sizes too small...if anything, I buy them a size larger in case they shrink when i wash them.

If I am going to the mall, on a lengthier shopping-trip, or to work...I usually wear dress-pants, not yoga pants.

I'm in very good shape....but I cover it up.
I dress in layers, I wear a cami to ensure my cleavage is covered up.

And I don't vilify women who choose to flaunt their bodies;

But I don't.

When I say I wear yoga pants for comfort, you can take that to the bank.

I also don't wear midriff-baring tops,
or impractical shoes,
or makeup,
or false nails.

Not every woman who wears yoga pants is doing it to get attention.

EDIT:

Having said all that, I do resent any repressive control-freaks who try to tell women how to dress.

If you're going to do that, you may as well hand out Burqas.

And I also patronize the fetish scene (or at least I used to, and hope to again, before too long)

and would go to the clubs....not in yoga pants, but in something like this:

[Image: 4fe3691edabd3.jpg]

or like this:

[Image: metredt6.jpg]


...I just don't wear it to run to the convenience store.
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#36
RE: Women's clothes?
I'm sold! Pick you up at 8?
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#37
RE: Women's clothes?
(January 16, 2016 at 4:03 am)ignoramus Wrote: I'm sold!   Pick you up at 8?

lol, yes it's a high-impact look, I know.

EDIT: I am not the woman in either of those pictures, though!! lol
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#38
RE: Women's clothes?
I don't think women shouldn't be restricted to wear what they find comfortable.
I however advocate strongly for pants for men that are extremely revealing of their penis. So that it makes it perfectly clear when a man has a boner, pants that are capable of outlining the exact shape and size of a man's penis, without actually revealing the penis. I also want campaigns for supporting this trend and I want society to applaud and praise men that follow this trend and shame whoever that are against this trend among men.

Is that too much to ask?
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#39
RE: Women's clothes?
(January 16, 2016 at 6:44 am)pool the great Wrote: I don't think women shouldn't be restricted to wear what they find comfortable.
I however advocate strongly for pants for men that are extremely revealing of their penis. So that it makes it perfectly clear when a man has a boner, pants that are capable of outlining the exact shape and size of a man's penis, without actually revealing the penis. I also want campaigns for supporting this trend and I want society to applaud and praise men that follow this trend and shame whoever that are against this trend among men.

Is that too much to ask?
Lmfao it's funny because it's literally the exact same thing Tongue
Which is better:
To die with ignorance, or to live with intelligence?

Truth doesn't accommodate to personal opinions.
The choice is yours. 
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The more questions you ask, the more you realize that disagreement is inevitable, and communication of this disagreement, irrelevant.
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#40
RE: Women's clothes?
(January 16, 2016 at 3:45 am)MTL Wrote: They really are comfortable:
They stay up, despite having no belt.
They stretch; they don't cut into you the way jeans do.
I'm not going to respond to all of what you said, because frankly I don't have the time.
However, if they are soooo comfortable and that's the only reason to wear them, why not just wear pajamas? Why not wear a nightgown? There is a slew of other things that are 10x more comfortable, there's no reason to claim these skin tight pants are only being worn for comfort and you don't care about any other factors besides it.
Also would you be fine with men who wear skin tight pants, specially designed to give the exact outline of their penis, yet then go claim it's specifically and solely for comfort?
It's the exact same thing.

I'm not saying you shouldn't wear yoga pants, that's perfectly fine, just don't claim it for something it's not. If you are in the comfort of your own home that's not what's being discussed. What's being discussed is that somehow anything worn in your a woman's home has become acceptable to wear in public, and anyone questioning that is labeled as being misogynist, discriminatory, or bigoted.


I could wear a speedo in public. Speedo's are pretty comfy right? However I don't because I care about how i'm seen, and to claim you don't wear things like yoga pants in public for at least to some degree the purpose of being seen, and don't care whatsoever about how you're seen and only wear them because they are comfortable, is simply a lie.
Which is better:
To die with ignorance, or to live with intelligence?

Truth doesn't accommodate to personal opinions.
The choice is yours. 
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