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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 20, 2017 at 9:39 am
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(January 20, 2017 at 8:21 am)Vic Wrote: (January 20, 2017 at 6:12 am)Jello Wrote: It's a completely disgusting way to talk about someone, yeah... 
People just treat her like crap, because she's slightly autistic (Not so great on the social side, that's all i've noticed), and because she has a personality disorder (Which she's medicated for, so it's not even that big of an issue for anyone else..?)
Blegh. I'm so sorry to hear that. She is a person. Her conditions don't make her any less of that. How awful. Hugs to both of you.
Thank you 
I'm just trying to figure out if my feelings are merely just reciprocation of hers, and aren't genuine, or if they are genuine, because i don't want to end up getting with her, and then finding out they aren't genuine, and making her feel worse. I've told her this, and she said she's happy whichever way it goes, which is really mature and nice of her to say, because i don't want to make her sad :/
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 20, 2017 at 10:07 am
You'll figure it out
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 20, 2017 at 11:22 am
They sound pretty genuine to me!
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 20, 2017 at 4:14 pm
(January 20, 2017 at 10:07 am)Vic Wrote: You'll figure it out Yeah, i'm getting there
(January 20, 2017 at 11:22 am)robvalue Wrote: They sound pretty genuine to me!
I'm getting the feeling this is the case, i'm just making 100% sure because i don't want to be another guy that comes along and makes her feel worse in the end
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 20, 2017 at 4:40 pm
CIJS that there is a serious issue with me when I start getting anxious for a football game I'm not even playing in two days early. Listening to Steelers Time Machine game from like 2010 on Steelers Nation Radio. My heart rate has elevated for a game I already know the outcome of.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 20, 2017 at 5:13 pm
CIJS
I feel a smidge better now. Just waiting for the shitstorm to happen.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 20, 2017 at 5:21 pm
(January 20, 2017 at 4:40 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: CIJS that there is a serious issue with me when I start getting anxious for a football game I'm not even playing in two days early. Listening to Steelers Time Machine game from like 2010 on Steelers Nation Radio. My heart rate has elevated for a game I already know the outcome of.
You need to learn to let go.
Do you gain or lose anything with the outcome of those games?
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 20, 2017 at 5:23 pm
(January 20, 2017 at 5:21 pm)pocaracas Wrote: (January 20, 2017 at 4:40 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: CIJS that there is a serious issue with me when I start getting anxious for a football game I'm not even playing in two days early. Listening to Steelers Time Machine game from like 2010 on Steelers Nation Radio. My heart rate has elevated for a game I already know the outcome of.
You need to learn to let go.
Do you gain or lose anything with the outcome of those games?
I gain a tattoo if they win another Super Bowl. I'll have to get LI added to my tattoo. I lose sleep, appetite, a little bit of poo if a big play happens.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 20, 2017 at 5:24 pm
CIJS I'm tired. I was tired yesterday and I'm probably going to be tired tomorrow. I'm tired of being tired.
I don't believe you. Get over it.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 20, 2017 at 5:33 pm
(January 20, 2017 at 5:23 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: (January 20, 2017 at 5:21 pm)pocaracas Wrote: You need to learn to let go.
Do you gain or lose anything with the outcome of those games?
I gain a tattoo if they win another Super Bowl. I'll have to get LI added to my tattoo. I lose sleep, appetite, a little bit of poo if a big play happens.
How does that compare with what the players gain?
It was that realization that got me off football... Too much money for a poor show.
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