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What's Wrong
#1
What's Wrong
Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable  

As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful  the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's  likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst

But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love
Seek strength, not to be greater than my brother, but to fight my greatest enemy -- myself.

Inuit Proverb

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#2
RE: What's up
Are you just angry/disappointed (grief coming out) or do you really believe there was an idiot in the op room?

Edit: You have my sympathies!
I don't have an anger problem, I have an idiot problem.
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#3
RE: What's up
(December 21, 2016 at 3:43 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: Are you just angry/disappointed (grief coming out) or do you really believe there was an idiot in the op room?

Edit: You have my sympathies!

There is evidence to suggest malpractice

And thank you
Seek strength, not to be greater than my brother, but to fight my greatest enemy -- myself.

Inuit Proverb

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#4
RE: What's Wrong
(December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Orochi Wrote: Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable  

As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful  the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's  likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst

But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love

I am very very sorry to hear this, Orochi.  Sad

What an absolutely devastating thing to have to deal with, and can't imagine how you both must be feeling. I hold 0 judgement against you for the argument. Please don't be embarrassed. I think any of us would have done that, it is very big of you to have apologized.  

If you need to talk, feel free to PM me.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
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RE: What's Wrong
(December 21, 2016 at 6:03 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote:
(December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Orochi Wrote: Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable  

As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful  the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's  likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst

But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love

I am very very sorry to hear this, Orochi.  Sad

What an absolutely devastating thing to have to deal with, and can't imagine how you both must be feeling. I hold 0 judgement against you for the argument. Please don't be embarrassed. I think any of us would have done that, it is very big of you to have apologized.  

If you need to talk, feel free to PM me.

Thank you
Seek strength, not to be greater than my brother, but to fight my greatest enemy -- myself.

Inuit Proverb

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#6
RE: What's Wrong
(December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Orochi Wrote: Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable  

As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful  the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's  likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst

But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love

That sucks bad. Sorry to see this.
If you get to thinking you’re a person of some influence, try ordering somebody else’s dog around.
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RE: What's Wrong
(December 21, 2016 at 6:33 pm)Fireball Wrote:
(December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Orochi Wrote: Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable  

As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful  the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's  likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst

But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love

That sucks bad. Sorry to see this.

thank you
Seek strength, not to be greater than my brother, but to fight my greatest enemy -- myself.

Inuit Proverb

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#8
RE: What's Wrong
(December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Orochi Wrote: Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable  

As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful  the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's  likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst

But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love

You know, Oro, sometimes people just get pissed off.  Don't beat yourself up over it.  It sounds as if you have cause.
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#9
RE: What's Wrong
(December 21, 2016 at 8:36 pm)Minimalist Wrote:
(December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Orochi Wrote: Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable  

As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful  the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's  likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst

But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love

You know, Oro, sometimes people just get pissed off.  Don't beat yourself up over it.  It sounds as if you have cause.

thank you
Seek strength, not to be greater than my brother, but to fight my greatest enemy -- myself.

Inuit Proverb

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#10
RE: What's Wrong
I get pissed off all the time.

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