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My mom is dying, going to need an ear.
#41
RE: My mom is dying, going to need an ear.
Brian,

I'm truly at a loss for words. I don't know what else I can add that hasn't already been said. My thoughts are with you. We have skyped before and had a really great conversation, lasting the better part of an hour.

PM me if you'd like. I'm going to have tons of free time after Monday, so feel free to bend my ear all you need.

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#42
RE: My mom is dying, going to need an ear.
Last night was scary as hell. Even though they told me what the progress would be like. They gave her pain meds that knocked her out totally to the point where she was even limp, they assured me it was just the meds, but still, I had to go home and didn't want yesterday to be my last words with her. But this morning when I walked into her room and said hi, she kept repeating my name. She had some energy this morning even at a very tiny bit. I know this wont last nor do I want her in pain on bit. But man again, the selfish side wants her to stick around.
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#43
RE: My mom is dying, going to need an ear.
Sorry to hear about your mom, Brian. I know from your posts here that you're close to her. I'm a mom and I'm thinking what a gift it is for your mom for her beloved son to be there for her in her final days. x
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#44
RE: My mom is dying, going to need an ear.
(February 21, 2017 at 7:19 am)Brian37 Wrote: I am terrified of not having her around.

I can relate in some way. I sat at both of my parents death beds within five years. I like to think I kept my mother alive for a few additional years after my father died. I thought it would be one of these cases where one partner followed the other immediately, as attached as they were to each other.

Letting go however can also lead to a sense of relief. I felt bad about feeling that way when my mother finally died. But I had persons around me that assured me there's nothing bad about it.
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#45
RE: My mom is dying, going to need an ear.
Sorry to hear this, Brian.
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#46
RE: My mom is dying, going to need an ear.
Shit man, that's terrible news, I'm really sorry mate.
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#47
RE: My mom is dying, going to need an ear.
I'm so sorry to hear this..
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#48
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How are you feeling today brian?
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#49
RE: My mom is dying, going to need an ear.
Brian, it's small solace, but you being there for her is as much comfort to her as her smiles are to you.

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#50
RE: My mom is dying, going to need an ear.
You're there for her, and that's what really matters. ((Virtual hug))
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