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Why Won't My Brother Admit He's Gay?
#21
RE: Why Won't My Brother Admit He's Gay?
But liking lady gaga is kinda weird, don't you think?
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RE: Why Won't My Brother Admit He's Gay?
(November 2, 2011 at 2:07 am)padraic Wrote: Your brother's sexuality is none of your business. Your choices are to accept him as he is,or not.

Did you even read the thread?
(November 2, 2011 at 2:09 am)kılıç_mehmet Wrote: But liking lady gaga is kinda weird, don't you think?

Definitely. But not for the reasons that your thinking of. :p
That will never hold up in court...
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#23
RE: Why Won't My Brother Admit He's Gay?
Aleoaloura I think you are right about your brother being gay. Not to mention he being is in deep denial about it. I met this one young man once who was a Christian and I swore was gay. However he decided to be celibate instead.

(November 1, 2011 at 11:47 pm)aleialoura Wrote: So WTF? Do you think he's gay, but doesn't know it? Is he straight and my gaydar is wonky? Or is he a tragic closet case?

I've asked him. He swears he's straight. All his besties back him up on that, but admit they've never seen him with a girl, and he's still a virgin.

Should I give a fuck? He gets really really depressed sometimes, and won't talk about what is bothering him to anyone. I feel like it's all coming from his religious based guilt from being a homosexual, but I don't know if I should press the issue, or leave it alone.

If it was your brother what would you do?

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#24
RE: Why Won't My Brother Admit He's Gay?
Just let him know that you are there if he has ANY problems and just wants to talk.

That is all you can do as he is old enough to tell you it is none of you business.
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#25
RE: Why Won't My Brother Admit He's Gay?
(November 2, 2011 at 2:07 am)padraic Wrote: Your brother's sexuality is none of your business. Your choices are to accept him as he is,or not.

I do accept him as he is. I am worried about his mental health. He's a fundamental christian, very close with his fundy family, and the only thing I am making my business is his well-being. He's severely depressed. Do you have any idea how many gay people kill themselves over shit like this? I love him and I'm worried about him. I don't care if he likes to fuck bowls of warm spaghetti while wearing a ball gag, watching Quantum Leap... just as long as he was happy.
(November 2, 2011 at 2:09 am)kılıç_mehmet Wrote: But liking lady gaga is kinda weird, don't you think?

Define "weird"...
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#26
RE: Why Won't My Brother Admit He's Gay?
He might be asexual. If he hasn't been seen with either men or women, maybe he just isnt attracted to anyone. I have an asexual friend, so maybe that's it.
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#27
RE: Why Won't My Brother Admit He's Gay?
If he talks like a gay man, if he walks like a gay man, if he behaves like a gay man, then he probably is a gay man Smile


(November 1, 2011 at 11:47 pm)aleialoura Wrote: He dresses like a woman any chance he gets. This is from Halloween this year (Lady GaGa Meat Dress)

Though, usually straight men are the one's who cross-dress..

Quote:If it was your brother what would you do?

If you have already told him that you're there for him, then you've done all you could. It doesn't matter if the whole world knows you're gay, if you can't admit it to yourself. And if he's depressed, seeing a psychologist would be a really good thing. But yeah, just love him and be there for him, the rest will sort it self out eventually. Hopefully.. Smile

When I was young, there was a god with infinite power protecting me. Is there anyone else who felt that way? And was sure about it? but the first time I fell in love, I was thrown down - or maybe I broke free - and I bade farewell to God and became human. Now I don't have God's protection, and I walk on the ground without wings, but I don't regret this hardship. I want to live as a person. -Arina Tanemura

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RE: Why Won't My Brother Admit He's Gay?
(November 2, 2011 at 2:33 am)aleialoura Wrote: Define "weird"...
Lady Gaga cosplaying is weird.
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#29
RE: Why Won't My Brother Admit He's Gay?
Alei, if I were you, I'd concentrate more on breaking religious guilt he might hold in his head rather than worrying about making him "accept" himself - whatever it is. Slowly leading him to realizing that he won't be eternally judged for being himself will do a lot more for relaxing him - although I can't give a tit's worth of advice on how he'll get around the fundy family. Mine just give me the silent treatment when I'm a bad girl. Somehow I doubt Christians are willing to be so hands-off.
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#30
RE: Why Won't My Brother Admit He's Gay?
10/10 Pad for not reading op :p
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