Grandfather in poor health

[HappySkeptic]

Thanks for the comment, I see your point, people don't want to think about death just as the end you know, one thing about being a proud atheist, I don't fear death or what it is anymore.

I guess my point is that, even as an atheist with no desire or expectation of an afterlife, I still have a personal myth about my purpose and how a finite life is enough.  If others go a different route, I can't just "give them" my myth as a substitute (something built up over a lifetime), so there is no point in me trying to break down theirs in their elder years.