RE: Why does everyone hate me?
April 2, 2012 at 12:39 pm
(This post was last modified: April 2, 2012 at 12:41 pm by Whateverist.)
(April 2, 2012 at 12:23 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: People are perverse and love a puzzle more than anything else. Most assume that everyone needs someone and those of us that mosey along without that need are mysterious and (my favorite over-used descriptor) "intriguing."
I don't know about you but what I really need in a steady relationship is someone who doesn't need me too much. I spent Saturday with my youngest cousin who is in her mid to late 30's. We talked about her relationships and goals. When she found out Lia and I have been together almost 30 years she really wanted to know how that could still be interesting and how we could still stand each other. I think the secret is we both have things to do which we really care about and we're both grateful that the other has the same. If I didn't have this relationship then I would have to pour a lot of time into creating it. I'm happy to have the time to garden, walk and prepare my classes instead.
Oh, almost forgot to ask: Which puppet were you Summer?