Objectifying women

[Eilonnwy]

Are you really comparing flirty outfits to your dick hanging out? Really?

Dotard, you are an idiot. What you are suggesting is that women cannot wear anything suggestive, without inviting assault. First off, the facts don't even match with your assertion. There are no statistics that show women walking around in flirty outfits are more likely to get raped. So your thinking has a fatal flaw there anyway.

Second, IT'S MY FUCKING BODY. I'm not flashing my tits around, so it's not the fucking same as you waving your cock around. Woman aren't walking around with tits out, but somehow wearing a tight top means she's contributing to her assault. The absurdity of your assertion is so fucking crazy, I can't even comprehend how you think anything you're saying makes sense.

I get that you're a man, so maybe you don't understand why your assertion is so incredibly sexist. But let me give you a hint. I'm a woman. I know people who have been sexually assaulted and rape. I go through life constantly with people making sexual overtures at me. I shrug most of it off, I know it's mostly innocent ignorant BS. I've never had anything terrible happen to me, but I have been at clubs where all I wanted to do was dance with my friends and men think that because I'm there it means I want to have sex. I can't tell you how many times I have to go to a male friend to get help with getting some creep off me. By your assertion my dancing in a cute top is my fault that creeps are all over me. By your assertion I should know better if I want to enjoy myself with my friends. By your assertion I am no better than money, to be hidden away if I want to feel safe. I am a person, this is my body. No one has a right to touch it, doesn't matter what the fuck I am wearing.

You're a man. You have the privilege of walking down the street in whatever you want and not being judged or catcalled at. You can walk late at night and not worry if the person walking a little too close behind you might attack you. You don't know what it's like to be a woman, and I am certain that's why you don't understand how incredibly offensive and downright ignorant your assertions are.