(December 11, 2017 at 4:49 pm)Grandizer Wrote:(December 11, 2017 at 1:08 pm)Hammy Wrote: I apologize for not intuiting that.
I guess I just see ASPD as sinister but I don't see NPD as sinister. And I don't see what you see.
Im mainly thinking of my father when I think NPD. They can be really abusive when theyre family and not just acquaintance.
My father was bat shit crazy *and* treated his children like trophies.
I was his first born. And his favorite. He practically didn't let my mom near me. We only really got to spend time together after I was 18 when we left him behind.
For the first 12 years of my life his craziness was somehow non-abusive though. He called himself 'zany'. He was never the same again after his operation for colitis actually. It was weird.