RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
October 26, 2016 at 11:16 am
(This post was last modified: October 26, 2016 at 11:17 am by Edwardo Piet.)
(October 26, 2016 at 11:04 am)Bella Morte Wrote:(October 26, 2016 at 11:01 am)Nymphadora Wrote: I said I hate him. I stand by that. If that makes me lesser of a person, so be it. I will gladly own that.
I don't think any less of you for it.
Me either. I don't think any less of Nym for hating him at all.
I don't think anyone should feel guilty for feeling feelings. When you feel bad about having other feelings that creates a real mess. I don't think feelings should attach themselves to other feelings, ideally, I think it's unhealthy--I think instead feelings should attach themselves, ideally, to reality and people and events--but of course if feelings do attach themselves to other feelings, it's healthy to not feel guilty about that either [emoji2] [emoji106]
Talking about feelings oneself has about oneself's other feelings of course. Feelings about other people's feelings is absolutely fine: that's empathetic!