(June 3, 2016 at 8:57 pm)Losty Wrote:(June 3, 2016 at 7:52 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: I can't even do casual fucking any more. After my gf and I broke up recently, I tried to do a ONS, and I just felt like a perv. I guess I'm all growed up or something.
Maybe I'm just too immature to see how wanting a serious relationship is more mature.
You're right. I still feel like a 'grew' out of it. Maybe it's not maturity, per se, but I do feel like something changed. I don't feel good about casual sex any more, and I think it has a lot to do with my state of mind as a 25 year old and my state of mind now. Maybe that's maturity, probably not. Because it changed with the elapsing of time, I feel like I "grew" out of it.
Either way, I wasn't thinking the alternative is a serious relationship.
"There remain four irreducible objections to religious faith: that it wholly misrepresents the origins of man and the cosmos, that because of this original error it manages to combine the maximum servility with the maximum of solipsism, that it is both the result and the cause of dangerous sexual repression, and that it is ultimately grounded on wish-thinking." ~Christopher Hitchens, god is not Great
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