I might not be having sex right now, but acting like a snotty little shit to me definitely isn't going to entice me into having sex with you in the future, no matter how much any sort of intimacy might do me some good. I don't respond to passive aggressive piss-poor attempts at reverse psychology. Hell, I don't even respond to positive reinforcement most of the time.
Why the fuck is it that lots of women like to call themselves a 'strong independent woman' and everyone praises them for it, but the minute someone tries to run up the wrong side of one who actually is, they realize it's not so fun for her to have spirit and they feel the need to be shitty to her?
I'm tired of being strong all the fucking time.
I know I did nothing wrong recently, but I'm still losing friends over it. I can safely, honestly say "it's you not me" in this situation, but that doesn't stop me from being hurt that people would rather stop being friends than realize they have no involvement in a situation or need to be emotional about it. Finding out that I have less value than their butthurt is possibly one of the most damaging things I've ever realized.
Why the fuck is it that lots of women like to call themselves a 'strong independent woman' and everyone praises them for it, but the minute someone tries to run up the wrong side of one who actually is, they realize it's not so fun for her to have spirit and they feel the need to be shitty to her?
I'm tired of being strong all the fucking time.
I know I did nothing wrong recently, but I'm still losing friends over it. I can safely, honestly say "it's you not me" in this situation, but that doesn't stop me from being hurt that people would rather stop being friends than realize they have no involvement in a situation or need to be emotional about it. Finding out that I have less value than their butthurt is possibly one of the most damaging things I've ever realized.